Idol! =)

I'm thinking of some topic to post to my human communication's blog, but then suddenly, I think of something, something and someone who I admired long time ago until now. Due to my time management, I forced to forget about the someone. That is my favorite band, Mayday! =P!

They are rock! =P!

Last few months, I still remembered there was a sunny day~ Bla bla bla~ xD! I went Sungai Wang for their mini concert on 1st of March! The scenario of that day still running in my mind, that was awesome man! =P! They came Malaysia to promote their concert, and I used up my half month salary to buy that concert ticket! It cost me RM430!!! But it's ok. at least I know it worth! =)

Then, 29th of April, that was their concert, at Genting, that was my first time. =) Awesome man! "M"ayday represent "M"agic, freedo"M", i"M"agine, "M"usic, and finally "M"ake "M"usic not war! So peaceful! =) Okay, get back to human communication. They are human, and I am human too, of course related to human communication. =P! [Kidding]

Since the day they were sign their signature for me, I still remembered our conversation, with the member I love the most, I shaked hand with him.

I said: "Ashin!! Thanks!!" =)
Ashin: "How are you? Thanks yea!" =)

Oh my god! I was like, why is he so adorable and friendly!!! I love him even more after that.

This is Ashin! He is so adorable right?! =P!

After their concert, I have no chance to meet with them, because they are from Taiwan, I can only search their news from internet, and from their blog. I know their news from tv and radio. What I want to mention here is, we did interpersonal communicate at the moment! [I meant between Ashin and me, xD]. And they did mass communication too! =)

It is now 11.54pm, and I done my blog for this week! Tomorrow I'm going to Port Dickson with my family, and after that will be Perak, so I will not update any blog here until I get back to here! =)!

Happy Hari Raya again to Mr. Murali, and my classmate! =)! Bye bye! Enjoy yea! ^.^

By
Soo Phik Tee

Steamboat!

According to wikipedia, steamboat refer to a variety of dishes eaten throughout East Asia, where ingredients are cooked in a simmering pot of broth at the table. Muahahaha~ Let's go back to my topic!

I had my delicious steamboat dinner with my family! =P!

Yeap! Delicious! It was so delicious! It was delicious not because of the food,it was because of the homey atmosphere.

Since I've started my 2nd semester, I spent time more time at college than at home. My family will always go out for dinner during Friday, Saturday and Sunday but I seldom follow, it is because I have plenty of assignment and presentation to do nowadays, mid-term coming soon. That is why I always missed out the chance to have dinner with my family.

Yesterday, I was so happy because finally I can enjoyed my dinner with my family! TvT! I'm so touched! We were all sitting together, waiting for the food, drink the herbal teh that cooked by my mom, talking to each others. The atmosphere warmth up my heart! =)! I've been lost the feeling since 1 month ago! T_T! And finally I found it back! Thanks Mama and Papa~ Heehee!

My dad was finally has a chance to talk to me, what I meant by "talk" is ask something about what am I doing recently at college, how is my life and bla bla bla... He asked me a lot about my college life, because I'm always stay in my room and doing my staff for whole day. He told me must learn to manage my time properly, and some advises to me too.

There was no communication between me and the food, [especially mushroom! I Love mushroom!] because I just ate it without telling the food: "I'm going to eat U!". Hahahahaha! But there was a communication between me and my family, we communicate through the steamboat dinner! =)! Yup! It was really a perfect and wonderful dinner for me! =)

P/S: I have to stop here because I need to rush to Accounting class! =P!

Have a N.I.C.E day!

Selamat Hari Raya!

=)

By

Soo Phik Tee

Leadership Camp =P

Yes! Leadership camp! Everyone of HMC students should know the camp because this is a compulsory for everyone. I've went there last week! It was awesome! =)! Like it very much! But the activities there was too rapid, I was so tired on that day, anyway, I still enjoyed the camp and understand lack of time of the organizer.

Even though it just a camp, but I still can involved the camp in my Human Communication blog! =)! Firstly, we have been separated to 8 groups. Every group has 9 or 10 members, I was in group 2! =)! Let's see my group logo, it's special, funny, and awesome!

Yup! You're right! That's my group logo and name! S.A.L.T.Y F.I.S.H! Don't you think this is special? =P! Yup! What I want to mention here is, within 10 members, we were all giving our own opinion and finally this is the 1 which chosen from 10 of us! Small group communication! I was so glad to join in this group among all of the group, we were communicate well to each others, always cooperate with each others.

Another things is, I can go with my friends! =)! Last semester, we were build a strong relationship between few of us, I felt so happy that I went there with them! =)! I enjoyed every moment that spent with them especially breakfast, lunch, and dinner because all of us were in the different group and that is the only time we can really sit down, chit chatting with each others. =)
This is also considered as small group communication right?! =P!

And this camp is also involved a lot of Intrapersonal Communication too! It was so scary when you were standing alone at the jungle! T_T! That was the first activity for first day, jungle drop, I was so scared and trying to calm down myself when I was standing alone there and looking at others people going far away from me, the light getting dimmer and dimmer, I started think that something was beside me, "something"! I trying to calm myself, I can't sit down because I scared of insect, then I started to think about what should I do after my camp, I think of Critical Thinking because Monday I'm the first 1 who present, I haven't think anything yet for the presentation. The time passed so slow, after I think all of the presentation content, they are still haven't come and pick me! T_T! I started count number, from 1, I expect them come and pick me up after 10 minute, yup! Thanks God! When I counted until 625, they came! Finally they came! =)! I did a lot of intrapersonal communication when I was alone! And it could overcome my fear! =)!

And another activity on the next day, the high rope! I was so scared! And I was keep telling myself that, that is a rope holding me, if fall down they will save me! =P! And I successfully cross over the high rope! =)

I was really enjoyed in the camp, but I was really exhausted after came back from there, and I've bitten by the big fat mosquito. T_T! It was a awesome and tiring camp, but I do appreciate the time and everything! =)!

Last but not least, Nicholas~ Where's your post? =P! Faster post your blog to our blogspot! I'm waiting for it, =P!

Good Night everyone! =)

By
Soo Phik Tee

Malaysian's language!

We communicate with each others by using language. Did all of you hear about "Manglish"? Today I'm going to share a lot about "Manglish"! =)! It's funny, but it's Malaysia culture. Let's start! Here is some example that taken from some web site. =)

But before that, let me give a simple definition about "Manglish".

English+Malay=Manglish
Mandarin+Malay+English=Rojak

Simple enough? LOL!

• Why you so lidat wan?

- Why are you like that?

• I dowan to talk to you anymore.

-I am not going to talk to you anymore.

• You say correct onot?

-Do you agree with me?

And I also found some word that always come out from Malaysian. ^v^

Adjectives 1. pai-seh" - ashamed. (Hokkien)

Verbs 1. "gostan" - reverse a vehicle, apparently from the nautical term "go astern" Sometimes also expressed as "gostan balik" (lit., reverse back)


I also found something that commonly used of Manglish.

"LAH" - It's always at the end of the sentences.

• Don't like this LAH!

"NIA" - Similar to ONLY.

• I got 2 ringgit NIA.

"MAH" - Almost same with "LAH", but not so strongly as it.

• She is like that one MAH.

"MEH" - Use to ask question.

• Really MEH? Yea MEH? Cannot MEH?

"LIAO" - Means "already".

• I eat LIAO.

"AH" - Used at the end of the sentences.

• Is that true AH?

"LOR" - Used for explaining something.

• Like that and like this LOR!

"GOT" - Uses of proper English " TO HAVE". Translet from Malay "ADA"

• You GOT 50 cent?

"LEH" - Used to soften an order.

• Help me LEH.

"ONE" - Used as an emphasis at the end of a sentence.

• Like that ONE ah?

LOL! Lastly, here is a joke to share, Mr. Murali, enjoy it! =)!

UK Immigration Officer: Purpose of visit?
Visitor: I’m here to study law, sir.
Officer: You know, you must have a lot of lawyers in Malaysia .
Visitor: Why do you say that?
Officer: Well, i’ve been here for a good twenty years, and I’d say 80% of Malaysians I see here say they’re here to read law.
Visitor: Oh, really? That’s really something i never knew. Hard to believe in fact.
Officer: Just you watch, then. You just stand here until the next Malaysian comes along, and I’ll bet he’s here to read law.

*Visitor waits for 5 mins, Ah Chong from Malaysia comes to immigration counter*

Officer: Mr. Ah Chong, purpose of visit?
Ah Chong: Study lORRR…

Good Night Everyone! ^.^

By

Soo Phik Tee

Feeling of losing someone...

I'm listening Mariah Carey's song, [bye bye]. It touched my heart, and I wonder, if missing someone who is left this world, how is it feel? I could felt it, I'm always think of something impossible, it's not impossible, but just, nobody doesn't want to face on it. I try to imagine the life without my parents, my love, and my friends, even though I just think of it, the feeling of afraid appear on my mind, I fear of losing all of them, the feeling of sadness started appear. So, imagine some of them who lose their love, Si Chuan Earth Quake, even though it was 4 months ago, I can still felt the sadness to victim's family, maybe some of us already forgot what had happened few months ago, but victim's family who still alive, will never forget, how is the feeling that they lose someone they love.

Missing someone, intrapersonal communication? Interpersonal communication? I don't know, for me, both also possible to be, missing someone, dream of someone in my dream, communicate with someone in dream, is that considered interpersonal communication? I couldn't stop missing of my parents, my friends, and my love, can anyone stop their feeling of missing someone?! No one knows it, maybe some could but some couldn't.

Still the same, appreciate everything around all of us, enjoy our life, appreacite our time! =)!
It will be my slogan! =)! A.P.P.R.E.C.I.A.T.E! =)
Nicholas! I'm still waiting for your blog, =P!
Mariah Carey's song is nice! Try it! =)

This is for my people who just lost somebody
Your best friend, your baby, your man, or your lady
Put your hand way up high
We will never say bye (no, no, no)
Mamas, daddies, sisters, brothers, friends and cousins
This is for my people who lost their grandmothers
Lift your head to the sky ‘cause we will never say bye

As a child there were them times
I didn’t get it but you kept me in line
I didn’t know why you didn’t show up sometimes
On sunday mornings and I missed you
But when we talked too
All them grown full things
Separation brings
You never let me know it
You never let it show because
You loved me and obviously
There’s so much more left to say
If you were with me today face to face

Chorus
I never knew I could hurt like this
And everyday life goes on like
“I wish I could talk to you for awhile”
“I wish I could find a way try not to cry”
As time goes by
And soon as you reach a better place
Still I’ll give the whole world to see your face
And I’m bragging right next to you
It feels like you gone too soon
The hardest thing to do is say bye bye

By-Bye By-bye By-bye
By-Bye By-bye By-bye
By-Bye By-bye By-bye
By-Bye

And you never got the chance to see how good I’ve done
And you never got to see me back at number one
I wish that you were here to celebrate together
I wish that we could spend the holidays together

I remember when you used to tuck me in at night
With the Teddy Bear you gave to me that I held so tight
I thought you were so strong
That you can make it through whatever
It’s so hard to accept the fact you’re gone forever

Chorus
I never knew I could hurt like this
And everyday life goes on like
“I wish I could talk to you for awhile”
“I wish I could find a way try not to cry”
As time goes by
And soon as you reach a better place
Still I’ll give the world to see your face
And I’m bragging right next to you where
It feels like you gone too soon
The hardest thing to do is say bye bye

By-Bye By-bye By-bye
By-Bye By-bye By-bye
By-Bye By-bye By-bye
By-Bye

This is for my peoples who just lost somebody
Your best friend, your baby, your man, or your lady
Put your hand way up high
We will never say bye (no, no, no)
Mamas, daddies, sisters, brothers, friends and cousins
This is for my people who lost their grandfather
Lift your head to the sky ‘cause we will never say bye

I never knew I could hurt like this
And everyday life goes on like
“I wish I could talk to you for awhile”
“I wish I could find a way try not to cry”
As time goes by
And soon as you reach a better place
Still I’ll give the world to see your face
And I’m bragging right next to you
It feels like you gone too soon
The hardest thing to do is say bye bye

By
Soo Phik Tee

Moody! =(!

Oh gosh! I've plenty of assignment and quizzes! I have to do revision for Moral Studies, Accounting, Critical Thinking Skill, because the quiz will be having on next week!Last week, I was requested to join the leadership camp for this week even though my name wasn't in the list because most of my friend's name were chosen to go on this week, that's why I decided to request. I was so surprise because I've been informed that HMC already approved my request. I thought that is a good starting but I had forgotten that my Critical Thinking Skill Presentation is on next Monday! That's means I have to prepare well my presentation before my leadership camp!Today is Tuesday, my English assignment have to pass up on Thursday, and my leadership camp is on Friday! That's totally no enough time for me to finish all my work! Almost all my classes ended on 6.30 pm, that's another problem to me. =(! O.o! Out of my topic already! I'm going to talk about miscommunication that was happened on me today, but I took too much of time to release my stress here, =P!


Let's talk about miscommunication, yesterday, I was fighting with someone, I agree with the statement of miscommunication, it can occurs anywhere and anytime, it was quite sad after I argue with him without any reason, maybe I was too stress and he was too, we were started to shout out what we dislike to each others, nobody knows what was happening, the war was started when he told me something,
he said:" I was so stress, don't feel like want to sleep even though I'm sleepy, I'm so tired, I'm so TIRED!"
I said:"Ok la! Since U so tired, don't talk with me k?"
[I was over reaction I know, =P!]
After that, we were hung up our phone call and sleep, I felt so guilty because of my bad tempered.



Through the conversation, I knew he was trying to express his unhappy and stress feeling to me, but I was stress too, then I just answer him loudly and trying to tell him I was stress too, he misunderstood me because he thought I was angry of him. Miscommunication occured. He misunderstood what I'm trying to tell him, I need him to comfort me, but he thought I'm trying to fight with him.

I was so irritating because of this, but thanks God, everything was fine, he said sorry to me this morning, =)! I was day dreaming this morning because of this! Intrapersonal communication occured again! =P!

Anyway, before I ended my blog, Pls bless me! T_T! This coming week will be my nightmare! =(!
Good Luck everyone!

By
Soo Phik Tee

Wall-E

Last 2 weeks, I went One Utama, finally, I can watch I want to watch! That's Wall-E! The animation was so cute! Due to my 2nd semester time table, I have no time to watch movie, T_T! But luckily I still able to go out and watch this movie! =)
Wall-e fell in love with Eve during their first meet. Without any action and language, wall-e fell in love. Can this considered as non-verbal? Wall-e takes good care and protects Eve after Eve detected the green plant, all of this action is a type of non-verbal communication. That's why, Love doesn't not to be show, action could be send the love to your love too!

Example, love from parents, they don't speak out how they love us, but they show us how they love us through their action, take care of us when we're sick, worry about our future. My parents, they worried my future more than myself, they went education fair and get all the information for me, asked my neighbour, and keep forcing me to think what I wish to do. They forced me because they know I'm the type of procrastination person, they are trying to force me to plan my future.
This is Eve that protects Wall-e when Wall-e having problems, she can even gave up of her order because of Wall-e. She doesn't love Wall-e at first, but after something happening, she felt Wall-e's love! And she started falling in love with Wall-e.
Wall-e, he did everything for Eve, the communication between both of them without any language, that's non-verbal communication.

Love can be produced by non-verbal communication, appreciate our family, appreciate our life, =)!

P/S:I'm struggle in posting 2 blogs per week too! T_T!

By
Soo Phik Tee

Body Language =)

Yes! Today I'm going to post something about body language, O.O! This is the first post for this week, one more thing! Nicholas! Wake up wake up! Faster post your blog! =P! [Giggles]

Ok! Body language, it's a type of non verbal communication. Maybe some of us don't know what is the uses of gesture for us, but some of them are deaf mute person since they're born, gesture is created specially for them.
Last time, before I start my college life, every Thursday I'll accompany my mom to market, I saw a stall, which sold vegetable, my mom told me, after 9 o'clock in the morning, the vegetable will be sold out, that time I was like:"WOW, what's so special?" Then I was realized, their all of their vegetable 100% without pesticide, and I realized that, they are both deaf mute, and they able to communicate with each others, they use eye contact, gesture, and body language to communicate with each others, and even though they are deaf mute, but we can feel they appreciate their life, they didn't give up their life, work hard and support their family. They have 3 daughters, and their daughters would always follow them to market and help them.

I wonder why, some of them, they are healthy, but they didn't even want to appreciate their life, see the husband and the wife, they are able to support their whole family, and they didn't give up at all, work hard and face their problems, that is what we should learn from them.

And gesture, body language, eye contact are important for those who are deaf mute, and some who can't speaks well. It's a type of communication for them to connect with the world, God is fair, they lose something but they learn something. Appreciate your life! =)! Nothing is better than enjoy and appreciate our life! =)! Cheer Up!


P/S: My assignment getting more and more, T_T!

By
Soo Phik Tee

Communication between lovers~ ^.^

Today I’m going to talk about something related to lover. I’m 18 years old; it’s time to know a boyfriend right?! But unfortunately, I’ve not meet the special one yet, but my friends around me, almost all of them found their soul mate and their special one.

Sometimes, I wonder how they communicate with each others. They fight, they love, they quarrel, and they enjoy being together. I always know something from my friend, let call her as Miss X, she told me she’s always fight with her boyfriend, but no matter how serious they fight, at last they will be fine. It’s quite funny. Is quarrel between lovers considered as communication?

Every action of lovers included talking, whispering, hugging, quarreling to each others, all of these action are considered as interpersonal communication.

Example: A guy proposes to a girl.

He: “Do you willing to be my wife? Let me be your husband and spend my entire life with you.”

She: “Yes, I do.”

The guy gave a message to the girl and the girl sent back him the feedback too, even though a quarrel too.

I don’t have so much of love experience, because I never had it before. I’ve read a lot of magazine, many articles said that love must be involved some quarrel, that’s 1 of the way to maintain their relationship, is that true? I don’t know, I think for those who has been really infatuated in love before should know that.

Last but not least, human being is full of intriguing. Some special cases, 2 of the person who don’t like to each others of their first impression can be infatuated with each others too! That’s why, don’t give up because of he or she doesn’t like you! =)! Try hard and you may get some surprise! =)!

Here is a joke that I found between a wife and a husband, enjoy it! It’s about man and women’s communication skill. =)

Wife : You tell a man something; it goes in one ear and comes out of the other.
Husband: You tell a woman something; it goes in both ears and comes out of the mouth.

By

Soo Phik Tee

Day Dreaming~ =)

I believed that everyone has his or her own dreams, but somehow, when we getting older and older, we may think that it’s hard to achieve our own goal or dreams, all we have to face is the realistic of world. For me, it is fun to have day dreaming. Based on what Mr. Murali said, day dreaming is considered as a type of intrapersonal communication.

Our life is getting harder and harder when we’re getting older and older, a lot of stress from society. Day dreaming is a communication within ourselves to fulfill something we couldn’t achieve. I like to day dreaming! It’s fun for me to dream when I’m free, I’ll day dreaming when I’m bored, during my class break, or even when I’m sitting inside KTM or bus. Usually I’ll think of traveling to the world, eating all the yummy food of everywhere, and buy all the cute stuff I love, and of course, doing nothing at home everyday and waiting for my maid to serve me, it’s hard to achieve! But recently, I keep dreaming of having a long holiday without any classes, everyday I stay at HELP from 8a.m to 6.30p.m, Monday to Thursday, I thought Friday is my free time to do something I like to do, but oh my god, it’s not! A lot of replacement classes coming toward to me! Of course it’s not only me but everyone. Furthermore, I am having plenty of assignment to do! Especially Introduction to Human Communication, I have to post at least 3 blogs per week! Therefore, instead of watching TV, online, playing video games, I prefer to day dreaming because it save my time and I feel relax after thinking all of this dream even though the some of the dream will not come true.

It is also a type of communication within ourselves; we could know that what is our goal, and think of the way to achieve it. Sometimes, many of us will think of our future especially after SPM, busy choosing of the college and course, worrying about the career, and so on. At least after day dreaming, we could know about what we want.

Therefore, try it when you’re free! =)! It’s important to have intrapersonal communication with yourself! =)! But remember! Don't over day dreaming especially in Mr. Murali's class! =P!

By

Soo Phik Tee